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Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Listen To Your Daughter When Life Treats Her Well

 Listen When...
Life Treats Her Well!

"Listen when life treats her well. 
Share the joys, freakish highs, 
and every level of joyful emotion in between."


Expanding on the article I posted earlier, here are several additional comments for your consideration.

A Simple Rule Of Thumb

There's a simple rule of thumb here: delight in her delights.

Shared delight = multiplied moments of...
  • Potential interaction, 
  • Bridge building 
  • And the on-going cultivation of mutual respect.
I believe this happens *because as dads we choose to make it happen.*

At 45 I may not relate to a momentary high of a fifteen year old being we termed entirely in a right frame of mind relative to the species we term human!
  • Age gaps do exist. 
  • Understanding gaps exist. 
  • And gaps of relating exist.
But it does not matter: it doesn't!

I can choose to capture the joy she reflects at the moment, delight in it myself solely because it is her delight, and make it an immediate personal treasure because:

1. I value my daughter.
2. I value the bond that shared joy creates.

I hope you got that! Because...
  • I value my daughter.
  • I value the bond created by shared joy.
Things can become a joy by choice, and the choices we make in this area of our lives, dads, are crucial. 


Do It!

Yes, this too takes time: do it!
Yes, it can be done: do it!

It's all about...
  • Love. 
  • Acceptance. 
  • Approval.
  • And the light in our eyes that creates the light in her eyes. 
May you and those you delight in have a wonderful life,

Lee
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2 comments:

michael said...

Thank you for your words of wisdom!

Being A Good Father said...

Michael,

Say, thanks for stopping by and sharing your appreciation: it's encouraging.

All the best to you this day,

Lee

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